March 2011
83 posts
“A man is not defined by his intentions, only by his actions.”
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“Negroes must insist continually, in season and out of season, that voting is necessary to modern manhood, that color discrimination is barbarism, and that Black boys need education as well as White boys…”
—W.E.B. Du Bois
Reasons Why Men Make Women "Psycho"
So my friend @D_Blaze1 over at Tales of Smooth D (nice double entendre) decided to write a blog discussing why women get “psycho” in relationships. In the beginning he discusses how someone says that men make women crazy and I’m here to say that someone was me. Many of his points are valid, but these are EXACT reasons as to why men are truly the reason behind a woman turning into Brandi from A Thin Line Between Love and Hate. I think I came very close to becoming one of these “psycho” women in my last relationship (thank God it didn’t happen) which is why I believe MEN are the catalyst behind this problem.
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He’s personable and has female friends-Mr. Blaze says that as long as a woman is on her P’s and Q’s she shouldn’t have to worry about her man leaving her for the girl he claims is like his “sister.” Well sir, I live in the South and incest is more than alive in some country hick towns. Although your man won’t admit it, all males have that ONE female friend who would jump
on his d*ckon him if given the opportunity. I don’t care if they were born in the same hospital, in rooms next to each other, took baby baths together or lived next door to each other. In the back of that b*tch’s mind she has questioned what IT would be like, even if it were for one night. It doesn’t help when you go to her FIRST when you have problems in your life. What’s the point of me being your girlfriend if you can’t tell me that your Mom found your porn collection under your bed recently? This also ties into the lower self-esteem issues. If we have to constantly hear about how wonderful La-a (pronounced La DASH A) Plus we as females see something different from ya’ll when we catch her looking at you. It’s a look that screams, “I want his d*ck.”
“…neither the Negro common-schools, nor Tuskegee itself could remain open a day were it not for teachers trained in Negro colleges, or trained by their graduates…”
—W.E.B. Du Bois The Souls of Black Folk
“Marriage is not a contest - never keep a score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win.”
—Lessons from Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher, the longest living married couple at 86 years. (via jozenc)
Random Thoughts
In all honesty, I think the biggest problem with women is that we are constantly trying to interpret things. We always think everything has a much bigger meaning than it really does. If a guy smiles at us everyday or puts his hand on our lower back we automatically assume he’s secretly madly in love with us. If our ex tries to get in contact with us and we’re still heartbroken we think it’s because he wants to get back with us, even if he’s moved on. If a guy is too nice to us he wants to sleep with us. Why can’t we just live in the moment sometimes I wonder. Just enjoy life with no worries.
Day 14: Two Ways To Win Your Heart
- Be yourself
- Accept me for me.
Day 13: Three Ways to Make You Cry
- Scream at me non-stop making me feel attacked.
- Betray me.
- Hit me in an aggressive manner.
Escucha las palabras .. de Romeo
- Let Me Find Outt
- Yessir
- Bananas
- K.O.B
- Aventuraah
- The Kings
- So Nastyy
- Tu grupo favorito mami (via @diimelo )
- Ya’ll can’t do it like we do it (via @thatrealish )
If there’s more .. feel free to add :) But this is all i remember from the top of my head.
hahaha the so nasty part i used it with my ex many times while having sex haha she said “best orgasm ever” true story lmao
Hearing “so nasty” in an Aventura song is an automatic panty dropper. I would die if a man were to whisper that in my ear while dancing.
